How I Can Work with You

Overcoming issues with pornography addiction:

For many couples, porn can add a little “spice” in the bedroom.  It may enhance, rather than harm your relationship.  If you are genuinely that person, my services are not for you.   

My approach:

However, if you’re ready to acknowledge that your dependence on pornography is hurting your partner and damaging your relationship, I can help you.  Maybe your relationship has ended due to your preference for on-line pornography.  Perhaps it’s in trouble.  Your partner has given you an ultimatum, and you need to do something now.  

Don’t try to do this alone. I won’t judge you.  My role is to enable you to explore alternative ways of thinking, feeling and behaving.  The results?  Well, that will depend on your commitment.  

Everything is within your power.

Equally, if you feel hurt, confused and powerless as a result of your partner’s addiction to pornography, Let’s talk about how counselling could help you find the answers you need.

I operate nationally therefore, if you’d prefer, I can offer on-line support.

Free assessment:

 I offer an initial assessment session that is free of charge.  We’ll agree what an addiction-free world feels like for you and I’ll devise your programme. Your engagement is key.  If you engage fully, you’re more likely to succeed.

Brief Model:

My work combines one-to-one Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and psychodynamic counselling with positive solutions at the heart of everything I do for my clients. 

I will ask you to commit to an initial six-week series of sessions.  

Each meeting will include feedback and a review, with objectives agreed for your follow-up session.  

And then?  We’ll agree the best course of action going forward. With me, the therapist-client relationship develops strongly over time so I’d recommend further engagement if you can.

If you’re ready to embrace a future without pornography, then I’m looking forward to hearing from you.  You’re already on the right page.